PRIMARY COACHING PATHWAY

Parent, Child & Family Development

Parenting can bring some of the deepest connection in our lives, while also bringing us face-to-face with uncertainty, frustration, old patterns, and parts of ourselves we may not have expected to meet again.

My work is not about telling you how to parent or giving you a formula to follow.

I meet parents, caregivers, children, and families where they are, helping you slow things down, understand what may be happening beneath the behavior, and build more intentional ways of responding, communicating, connecting, and growing together.

This work can begin before things feel overwhelming. We can look at triggers, developmental needs, family patterns, communication, co-regulation, connection, boundaries, and the environment surrounding the child, then find practical approaches that fit you and your family rather than forcing you into someone else's version of what caring for children should look like.

Nurturing the adults matters here, too.

Parenting and caregiving can bring identity shifts, relationship changes, exhaustion, grief, uncertainty, and questions about who you are becoming.

Supporting children also means making room for the human beings raising them.

What is Parent & Human Development Coaching?

Support for the adults shaping a child's world.

Parent coaching is a collaborative space for parents and caregivers to better understand themselves, the child in front of them, and the relationship developing between them.

It is practical, reflective, and grounded in what is happening in your life right now.

We may look at behavior, emotions, developmental needs, communication, family patterns, triggers, boundaries, connection, co-regulation, or the environment surrounding your child.

But the goal is not to give you a script for parenting.

The goal is to help you become more aware of what is happening, understand what may be underneath it, and make choices that feel more intentional for you and your family.

Sometimes the work centers primarily on the adult. Sometimes we explore the child's development, needs, play, movement, or ways of communicating. Sometimes we look at the relationship between the two.

What matters is meeting your family where you actually are.

This may be a good fit if you want to:

  • Understand what may be underneath a child's behavior

  • Respond with greater awareness instead of automatically reacting

  • Strengthen communication, connection, trust, and emotional safety

  • Better understand what may be appropriate for a child's age and developmental stage

  • Recognize inherited patterns you do not want to continue

  • Understand your own triggers and what they may be asking you to notice

  • Build a home environment that supports both the child and the adults within it

  • Become more conscious of what you model through the way you react, respond, repair, relate, and live

What We May Work On Together

Build the foundations beneath behavior, identity, and family life.

When something feels difficult, it is easy to focus only on what is happening on the surface.

The behavior matters, but it may not be the whole story.

Our work looks at the relationship beneath the behavior, not only the behavior itself.

We may explore:

Parent-Child Connection

Strengthening trust, emotional safety, repair, and the quality of the relationship you are building.

Triggers and Inherited Patterns

Understanding what your child's behavior may awaken in you and what beliefs, expectations, or family patterns may be influencing your response.

Communication and Emotional Awareness

Creating healthier ways of expressing needs, listening, setting boundaries, navigating conflict, and making space for emotion.

Child Development

Becoming more curious about your child's age, personality, needs, abilities, and stage of development before assuming a behavior is intentionally difficult.

Confidence and Independence

Creating environments where children can explore, try, make mistakes, problem-solve, and gradually build trust in themselves.

Identity and The Authentic Self

Giving children room to show you who they are while becoming more aware of the expectations, labels, or assumptions adults may unintentionally place around them.

Play, Movement, and Curiosity

Using ordinary moments, movement, exploration, and play as opportunities for connection, learning, communication, and development.

The childhood we help create becomes part of the adulthood they carry forward.

We cannot create a childhood without difficulty,

but we can help create one with more safety, connection, curiosity, repair, trust, and room for a child to become who they are.

Helping adults create healthier environments for children is one way of getting closer to the root.

The Path That Led Me Here

I'm Ixchel, but you can call me EESH!

I have spent more than a decade learning how people move, adapt, communicate, develop, and rebuild through caregiving, education, rehabilitation, clinical environments, and coaching.

My professional direction changed over time, but one calling remained consistent:

I wanted to work with children and support the foundations shaping who they would become.

The title of the career changed. The deeper direction did not.

I'm a Certified Health & Life Coach, a lifelong student of being human, and someone who has always been deeply curious about how we grow into who we are.

My work today lives at the intersection of parent and human development, parent-child connection, identity, relationships, movement, play, and the transitions that shape us throughout life.

And no, I'm not a parent.

What I do have is years of experience caring for, working with, learning from, playing alongside, and supporting children across different ages, abilities, families, cultures, and environments.

I have worked in childcare, tutoring, healthcare, rehabilitation, and pediatric settings. My background in kinesiology taught me to understand the human body through movement, development, health, and physical experience. Orthotics and prosthetics brought me alongside children and adults with different physical and developmental needs.

And years of being trusted with children taught me things no textbook could have taught me on its own.

Children are constantly communicating with us.

Through what they say, what they do not say, how they move, how they play, what they repeat, how they respond, how they express themselves, what they avoid, what they explore and show interest in again and again.

I learned to pay attention.

I don't believe children are projects for us to perfect,

BUT I do believe they are people that deserve getting to know.

They need leadership, boundaries, guidance, safety, patience, opportunities to develop, and adults willing to help them navigate a world they are experiencing for the first time.

But they also need room to show us who they are.

That belief is personal for me.

I grew up knowing I was loved. As I became an adult, I also began understanding the difference between being loved and feeling deeply known.

There were versions of me that made sense to the adults around me. Expectations about who I should be, how I should behave, what I should pursue, and what a successful life was supposed to look like.

Eventually I had to ask:

Who am I when I'm not trying to become who someone else imagined I should be?

That question changed the way I see children, too.

I do not want children to spend decades trying to separate who they authentically are from identities, expectations, fears, and beliefs that were placed around them.

And I do not believe most parents intentionally create those patterns.

We are often simply handed ways of loving, communicating, disciplining, coping, protecting, and surviving.

We repeat them until something gives us a reason to become curious.

Underneath every adult is a child who was once learning how to be human.

That younger version of us may still appear in our fears, triggers, expectations, relationship with control, definitions of respect, emotional responses, and the way we relate to the children in front of us.

A difficult moment with a child can hold two questions at once:

What might my child need right now? AND What is this moment bringing up in me?

That is where my work begins.

Not with becoming a perfect parent or child caregiver...

With becoming more aware of yourself while becoming more curious about the child in front of you.

MY PURPOSE

To help people understand how they became who they are, reconnect with what feels authentically true, and consciously decide what they want to carry forward.

When children are involved, that also means helping protect and strengthen the foundations shaping who they are becoming.

MY MISSION

To support parents, caregivers, and adults in developing greater self-awareness, understanding inherited patterns, strengthening communication and connection, and creating more intentional ways of responding, relating, and living.

MY VISION

To contribute to a generation of people who understand themselves earlier, trust themselves more deeply, communicate more honestly, and feel safer being who they are.

A generation raised alongside adults willing to grow with them.

Authenticity • Connection • Curiosity • Compassion • Awareness • Freedom • Growth • Generational Responsibility

The Way We Work

01 — Recognize

What is asking to be seen clearly?

We notice the patterns, emotions, beliefs, body responses, family dynamics, inherited expectations, triggers, and unmet needs influencing what is happening now.

Recognition is not judgment.

It is the moment something automatic becomes visible enough for you to understand it.

02 — Reclaim

What remains true when expectation grows quieter?

We reconnect with your voice, values, needs, boundaries, strengths, intuition, desires, identity, and the parts of yourself that may have become quieter beneath responsibility, fear, expectation, or adaptation.

Reclaiming is not about becoming who you used to be.

It is about becoming more able to recognize what is genuinely yours.

03 — Reintegrate

How does what you understand change what you do next?

Insight becomes useful when it begins changing ordinary life around how you communicate, you respond, you take care of children, how you repair, you set boundaries, you rest, you make decisions, you relate to yourself and others.

Reintegration is the practice of carrying what you understand into the way you actually live.

Recognize. Reclaim. Reintegrate.

Reflect, Refine, & Return.

Human development is ongoing.

We continue learning as life continues asking different things from us.

Inside the Coaching Experience

What coaching with EESH looks like

Coaching is not a performance, a lecture, or a place where someone else tells you who to become.

It is a focused conversation where we slow down, listen carefully, and work with what is actually present.

You bring the life you are living. I help you see it more clearly.

I listen for the language you use, what keeps repeating, the emotions underneath the story, the beliefs influencing your choices, and the places where what you say you want may be different from what you have learned to expect.

Sometimes we talk, we reflect, we slow down, we question a belief, we trace a reaction backward, we practice a new conversation or response, we realize the problem you came in with is connected to something deeper, and sometimes the most important thing that happens is simply seeing something differently than you did when you walked in.

Coaching is...

A collaborative space for reflection, awareness, learning, experimentation, and practical change.

It can help you better understand yourself, your relationships, your patterns, your communication, and the choices available to you.

Coaching is not...

Therapy, diagnosis, psychological treatment, medical care, or a replacement for support from a qualified mental health, medical, developmental, or rehabilitation professional when that level of care is needed.

I do not diagnose your child.

I do not claim to know your child better than you do.

I do not believe there is one correct way every family should function.

You bring your lived experience.

I bring curiosity, education, observation, questions, and another perspective.

My goal is not for you to become dependent on my perspective.

My goal is for you to understand yourself, your relationships, and the child in front of you more clearly so you can increasingly trust your ability to make thoughtful decisions for your own life and family.

Are You Ready to Begin?

You do not need to know exactly what kind of support you need before reaching out.

Bring the pattern, relationship, transition, question, or situation that has been asking for your attention.

We can begin there.